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VIRTUAL ZOOM MEETINGS FOR VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE (see end for Table of Contents covered)
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OFFERED BY\"2021-03-15_142619\"<\/a>Child Rescue Foundation, Inc.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

SINCE 1999 ASSISTING OVER <\/b><\/span><\/span>350 ANNUALLY IN THEIR RECOVERY<\/p>\n

Awareness Workbook For Victims of Domestic Violence and Stalking™<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

2443 South University Blvd Suite 273 Denver CO 80210
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www.cr-foundation.org\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 303-628-0477<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Forms for clients to begin..send an email to cr-foundation.org and request your order forms<\/p>\n

\"2021-03-15_140000\"<\/a>\"2021-03-15_140031\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Author\u2019s Note<\/h1>\n

In writing this book in which the intention of the information applies equally to person\u2019s of any sex, race, religion, we have been faced with the dilemma of sex-specific pronouns. The use of word \u201che\u201d when referring to an offender in a crime of domestic violence in this Workbook, occurs as a result of the majority statistics that show that DV crimes are perpetrated more often by men against women rather than women against men or same sex violence. This is not to imply that women do not commit DV crimes against women or men, rather, they are the minority.<\/span><\/p>\n

This workbook is not intended to supply all the information needed for victims of violence. Rather, it is designed to serve along with other books, counseling and advocacy that we believe will provide successful assistance in your particular case and recovery.<\/span><\/p>\n

Disclaimer<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

THE MATERIALS IN THIS WORKBOOK ARE PROVIDED “AS IS” WITHOUT ANY EXPRESS OR IMPLIED WARRANTY OF ANY KIND INCLUDING WARRANTIES OF MERCHANTABILITY, NONINFRINGEMENT OF INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY, OR FITNESS FOR ANY PARTICULAR PURPOSE. IN NO EVENT SHALL U. S. LEGAL FORMS, INC. OR ITS AGENTS OR OFFICERS BE LIABLE FOR ANY DAMAGES WHATSOEVER (INCLUDING, WITHOUT LIMITATION, DAMAGES FOR LOSS OF PROFITS, BUSINESS INTERRUPTION, LOSS OF INFORMATION) ARISING OUT OF THE USE OF OR INABILITY TO USE THE MATERIALS, EVEN IF U.S. LEGAL FORMS, INC. HAS BEEN ADVISED OF THE POSSIBILITY OF SUCH DAMAGES.<\/span><\/p>\n

By using <\/span>The Workbook for Victims of Domestic Violence and Stalking<\/i><\/span> you agree that in no event will CRF, Inc. be liable for any special, consequential, incidental or indirect damages arising out of your use of The Workbook or the forms provided to you, however caused, whether for breach of contract, negligence or otherwise, and whether or not CRF, Inc. has been advised of the possibility of such damage. These limitations will apply notwithstanding the failure of any essential purpose of any limited remedy. <\/span><\/p>\n

By ordering forms and using the information contained herein, you agree that the forms may only be used for your personal use or use for your clients and may not be sold or redistributed without the written consent of The Child Rescue Foundation, Inc. No license or claim is made to government or public domain forms or information except that such forms may not be obtained from this site for resale.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you have a serious legal problem we suggest that you consult an attorney.\u00a0 U.S. Legal Forms does not provide legal advice.\u00a0 The products offered by U.S. Legal Forms (USLF) are not a substitute for the advice of an attorney.<\/span><\/p>\n

All forms and information in this workbook are provided without any warranty, express or implied, as to their legal effect and completeness. Information and forms should be used as a guide and modified to meet the laws in your state. Please use at your own risk.<\/span><\/p>\n

Some forms are public domain forms that may be available from other sources. No claim is made to public domain or government forms in the public domain.\u00a0 In such a case, the fee we charge is for our services in locating the form for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

In possessing and using this workbook, you agree to keep this workbook with you for use and privacy at all times.<\/span><\/p>\n

This Workbook is to be used in conjunction with support from a Victims\u2019 Advocate, therapist, minister or other individuals trained in working with victims of domestic violence and stalking.<\/span><\/p>\n

Foreword <\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n

From the Executive Director of the Child Rescue Foundation:<\/h1>\n

I am a stalking survivor.<\/span><\/p>\n

In choosing to open this workbook, you have made the first crucial decision in leaving an abusive relationship. You have chosen recovery.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are not responsible for the actions of any other human beings. You are responsible for actions and reactions in your life, every minute of every day, and how you choose to act and react from here on out will determine your success in moving forward in your recovery. Individuals seeking recovery are choosing to see a different way of life, to see the heaven they have yet to experience over the hell they have known. Other people can talk to you about what recovery looks like. They can tell you what living without fear and terror can look like. But until you choose to move through that door, these stories are only dreams of other survivor\u2019s lives. I made a choice to recover. <\/span><\/p>\n

In working through my own recovery, and helping many others to move through theirs, a common story is told. It was comforting to know that I was not alone. You are not alone. Almost all victims of crime say, \u201cI felt like I was the only one.\u201d Frustration, a sense of hopelessness, anger or fear has kept them immobilized throughout their ordeal. Many times these sad and fearful emotions propel us to try something new in the hopes that life will change for the better.<\/span><\/p>\n

Recovery is a process, much like stepping on stones across a brook. For some, the steps are small, often forward in nature, but sometimes we take a few steps backward just to test the waters. It becomes a process, a daily mindful ritual, to want to make effective changes in our lives, and in the lives of our children. <\/span><\/p>\n

What you put into your recovery is what you get out of it. You may go backwards. You may need time to sit on a flat rock and work on your journal, talk to a therapist, join a support group. Often, in recovery mode, assessing your life daily can help you to focus on the steps ahead. This process takes time. Be kind to yourself while you are stepping along. It is easier with a support system. Align yourself with people who love and care for you and support your efforts. The time to move on from those who hold you back has come. Seek your church, synagogue, mosque, friends, and sympathetic coworkers for support. I can hear you say it already, \u201cYes, but they have already heard this and they are getting tired of me and my problems.\u201d Then it is time to learn a valuable lesson, leave your little red wagon full of woes behind, because they belong in the past, and allow yourself to imagine a bright new future. Imagine and act your best life and you will make it come true. What have you got to loose when beginning to dream again? Dreams often come true with goals, especially when those dreams are connected to goals. Determine what your motivation is and establish goals to reach those dreams.<\/span><\/p>\n

It takes great strength to want to change. If you understand how much effort it took to get where you are now, and that every small step is a win, then you will also understand how much effort it will take for you keep moving forward.<\/span><\/p>\n

Former stalking and domestic violence survivors helped assemble the Awareness Workbook for Victims of Domestic Violence and Stalking . Within this book, you will find a working guide in identifying signs and symptoms of domestic violence for adults and children to assist you in your recovery for both your self and your children. To assist in your journey, there are assessment tools, awareness raising tips, recovery tools and reading for moving forward into your new life. These are the tools they learned to help them to recover. <\/span><\/p>\n

Recovery is a personal choice, a private matter. It is your choice for self-accountability. Just as in the case of boarding an airplane, the stewards will tell you in case of emergency, take the face mask and place it on YOUR face first, then on your child\u2019s. Children watch what we do, not do what we say. So, you must heal yourself first.<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember you have great strength and courage, and with support and determination, a new life is ready to open up to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Na Maste,<\/span><\/p>\n

Joanne Kappel \uf0e3<\/span> Copyright 2021 by Joanne Kappel and the Child Rescue Foundation, Inc.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

All rights reserved, which includes the right to reproduce this book or portions thereof in any form whatsoever except as provided by the U.S. Copyright Law. For information, contact CRF at PO Box 102319, Denver Colorado 80250 or go to the web site <\/span><\/span><\/span>www.cr-foundation.org<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/span>.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

monthly 4 WEEK LONG, ONCE A WEEK, EVENING MEETINGS (2HRS)<\/p>\n

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The Awareness Workbook for<\/b><\/span><\/span> \"2021-03-15_140000\"<\/a>Victims of Domestic Violence and Stalking<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<\/colgroup>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
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Table of Contents<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h6>\n
Introduction<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/h6>\n<\/td>\n
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Disclaimer<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
About this Workbook<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Development and Production Team<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Table of Contents<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Acknowledgments<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Author\u2019s Note<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Letter from the Executive Director<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Foreword<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

Part One – Domestic Violence<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/colgroup>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
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Chapter One \u2013 Identifying Domestic Violence – 14<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n

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Chapter Two \u2013 Identifying Precursors to Violence \u2013 20<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n

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Chapter Three – Children and Domestic Violence – 27<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n

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Chapter Four – Dating Violence and Abuse – 46<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n

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Chapter Five – Safety Plan – 49<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n

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Chapter Six – Domestic Violence Review \u2013 58<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

Part Two – Domestic Violence is NOT OKAY<\/b><\/u><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/u>A Book for Children and Adults dealing with Domestic Violence \u2013 60-85<\/b><\/u><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Coloring Book for Children from <\/b><\/u><\/span><\/span><\/span>Aurora Family Violence Response Team-86-97<\/b><\/u><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h1>\n

Part Three \u2013Stalking – 98<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/colgroup>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
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Chapter Seven – Introduction to Stalking \u2013 99<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n

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Chapter Eight – Coming to Terms with a Stalking Relationship – 115<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n

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Chapter Nine – Getting out of a Stalking Relationship – 120<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n

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Chapter Ten – Cyberstalking and the Law \u2013 124<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n

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Chapter Eleven – Safety Plan Taking Action-127<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h1>\n

Making a Safety Plan<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Escape Items<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

If It\u2019s Not Me, Can I Still Help?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Goals of the Abuser \/ Predator<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n

128<\/span><\/span>129<\/span><\/span>129<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

129<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n

Tri Fold Quick Look<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n130<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
How to Enhance Police Response<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n131<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Your Rights as a Victim<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n131<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

Part Four – Recovery<\/p>\n

Sample Court Forms<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Part Five \u2013 Managing Your Case<\/b><\/u><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Chapter 13:Enforcing the Law -248<\/b><\/u><\/span><\/span><\/h1>\n

Child Support<\/span><\/span><\/span> Enforcement of Child Support 249<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Strategies to Improve Supervised Visitation Services in Domestic Violence Cases 250<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Recognizing Common Batterers Behaviors In Supervised Visitation Settings 253<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Strategies to Improve Supervised Visitation in Domestic Violence Cases 255<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/colgroup>\n\n\n\n\n
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Chapter 14: Managing Your Case-261<\/b><\/u><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n

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<\/td>\n270<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

Chapter 15:Domestic Violence in the Workplace 278<\/b><\/u><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

284<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Part Six \u2013 Reference-273<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/colgroup>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
The Restraining Order<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n287<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Journal<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n288-291<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Monthly Guidance<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n292<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
More Help Online<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n293<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
History of CRF<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n299<\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Appendix\/Forms\/Bibliography<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/td>\n305<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Conclusion<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/td>\n309<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

\u00a0A first step in the process of recovery..from Victim to Victor!!!<\/h1>\n

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